Often when we think about knowing God, the first questions that pop into our mind concern classes and instruction. “Is there a book I might read? … A course I could take? … A retreat I should attend?” This is the way we’ve been trained to think in our time. But it is not the way one becomes a disciple.
The study of the Word produces much learning about God, and communion with God is experienced in the disciplined practice of contemplative prayer and meditation. There is a revelation of God to be found in the face of the poor and an experience of God obtained in corporate praise and worship. All these activities can—and do—teach us about God. But to know Him demands something other than study. To know Him we must be with Him. Jesus calls his disciples to be with Him. This means that we must be joined to Him—or, to use the language of a by-gone agricultural era—we must be yoked to Him.
Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light. —Matt. 11:29–30
To know God we must be yoked to Him. A yoke is a tool of repression; it inhibits the wearer from pursuing his own direction, and compels him to follow the master’s direction. A yoke trains its wearer to be obedient. And what was the yoke that Jesus wore? It was a yoke of suffering:
Although he was a son, he learned obedience through what he suffered. —Heb. 5:8
To know God—to genuinely and intimately know Him—we must yield under His yoke and learn obedience. We must surrender our own way and participate in His suffering. It is in a resistance to the things of this world that we come to know God more. We will suffer when we resist sin and temptation, yet we will learn how He satisfies our every need. We will suffer when we crucify our self-will and swallow our pride, but we will know Him in His tender provision and care. We come to know Him when we walk with Him in obedience together to the will of God. And obedience is born of suffering.
… that I may know him and the power of his resurrection, and may share his sufferings, becoming like him in his death, that by any means possible I may attain the resurrection from the dead. — Phil. 3:10–11
We will not come to know Him by attending yet another service or by completing another course. Those events may help us know more about Him, but they cannot help us know Him. And this one thing alone is needful: that we know Him. In knowing Him we at last become His disciples. So let us come to Him and take His yoke upon our necks. Let us walk with Him on the difficult path of obedience. We may suffer, but we will know Him.
