In church we have been considering the story of Abraham and Sarah and their walk and life of faith. These two, the father and mother of all who are of faith (Rom 4:16–17), are quintessential examples of human beings who trust God to perform His promises. It takes but a little time to read the story of the birth of Isaac; it plays out in a mere ten chapters of Genesis. Yet in the lives of Sarah and Abraham it took twenty-five years between God’s promise of a son and the fulfillment of the birth of Isaac. Twenty-five years. 25!
All of us live in an age between a promise and the fulfillment. We stand between the declaration, “This same Jesus will come again” (Acts 1:11) and His actual, manifested, physical return. Some of us are also waiting for the fulfillment of a more specific individual promise. What can Abraham and Sarah teach us about how to live during this age?
The first and most important lesson is this: God will fulfill His Word. This is because God—unlike man—cannot and will not lie (Num. 23:19). This is the bedrock of faith—a strong, immovable confidence in the character of God. If He promised, He will do it. Believing that is faith in God.
We have added many things to the concept of faith which may have obscured its essence. Biblical faith is not primarily a means of producing prosperity, healing, victory, employment, or anything else concerning life in this world. Instead, it is a relationship with God, an expression of our belief, trust and confidence in His person, presence, character and integrity. The stories of Abraham and Sarah, along with all the other biblical narratives, teach us about the character of God. He is faithful, and He will perform His Word.
A second lesson is to guard against the temptation of doing anything to help God fulfill His promise. The whole Hagar incident didn’t work out too well for Abraham and Sarah. And remember Moses’ attempt to govern the Israelites on his own? The historical narratives repeatedly describe difficulties caused by human interference in God’s promises. Rather than to try and bring things to pass by our own strength, we need to wait on God. That is, in itself, the work of faith: waiting. For it appears that for the most part, it takes time for God’s promises to be fulfilled.
Why should this be? I suspect that it has something to do with our need for preparation. A major hindrance to the fulfillment of God’s promises is people and their (our) lack of faith. The age between the promise and fulfillment then might just be a gift—an opportunity received in order to develop our faith. It takes faith to receive and steward the promises of God. That faith is the product of a relationship with God. Therefore I would suggest that the time between the promise and its fulfillment is time given to get our relationships right. The first and most important of these relationships is the one which we have with God. But all our other relationships must be ordered aright as well.
Receiving the promises of God requires that our will be conformed to God’s will. For that we must surrender ourselves to God. This surrender is not something we can do in our own strength. The truth is that the very idea of surrender is not even produced by our own, independent thought. Both the desire and expression of surrender comes through faith, which is the gift from God. It is produced by the Holy Spirit and the Word. As we submit ourselves to the Word and the Holy Spirit, we arrive at a position to receive God’s promise. Always remember, these are God’s promises; they are given for His purpose and intent, not our own. Right relationship with Him is manifested through our position of surrendered submission, as we live in complete dependence upon Him rather than in living on our own or for ourselves.
We must first be in right relationship with God. But this, at one and the same time, affects all our other relationships—those we have with other people. Not surprisingly, our ability to possess God’s promises demands that these other relationships are rightly ordered as well. What is the right ordering of a Christian’s relationships with others? It is expressed by our imitation of Christ, in which we count others as more important than ourselves and devote ourselves to the interests of others rather than to our own (Phil. 2:3–8). But know this: it is only by entering into a submitted, surrendered life with God that we are empowered to lose our self-centered focus. A disciplined, submitted and surrendered life starves the self’s constant hunger for its own blessing, and blinds it to its narcissistic attraction to itself. Christians must live this way. It is the source of both our body life (Church) and our witness in the world.
Again, while it is true that we have to decide to live like this, none of it—not the submission, surrender, humility, self-denial, nor the focus on others—can be done without the empowerment of the Holy Spirit. The desire for such a life proves the Spirit’s call on us. We need only stop resisting. That sets us in a place of submission to the Word and the Spirit. And so the age between promise and fulfillment is a gift, a time of preparation in which we are called to get ready to receive God’s promise.
Wherever we find ourselves, let us reflect on Abraham and Sarah and all the other men and women of faith whose stories are preserved in Holy Scripture. Let us learn to trust God and get our relationships right. Abraham and Sarah had to get their own relationship right before a child could be born to them. And so it will be for us. Now let me be honest—the time between the promise and its fulfillment can be frustrating, agonizing, and a whole host of other adjectives that may be less than edifying were I to employ them. The temptation to do something will always be strong, and many there will be who will counsel for it! And yet we must resist and stand in faith. I’m encouraged by the account of Abraham and Sarah’s journey, even as I pray that my own does not extend for twenty-five years! Yet no matter how it looks, I know that God will perform His Word. So let us develop our faith by getting our relationship right with God. And let us get right with each other. Let us encourage each other, help each other and esteem each other as valuable and precious. Let us pray for each other, even as we stand, wait, and develop our faith in God.